Discover the Benefits of Solution-Focused Therapy with Goal-Oriented Counseling Techniques
- Dr. Ashley Nazon

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When life feels overwhelming, and problems seem to pile up, it’s easy to get stuck in a cycle of worry and frustration. I’ve found that focusing on solutions rather than problems can make a huge difference. That’s where goal-oriented counseling techniques come in. These approaches help you move forward by concentrating on what you want to achieve, not just what’s going wrong.
In this post, I’ll share how these techniques work, why they’re effective, and how they can support your mental and emotional well-being. Whether you’re seeking help for yourself, your relationship, or your family, understanding these methods can empower you to take positive steps toward a better future.
What Are Goal-Oriented Counseling Techniques?
Goal-oriented counseling techniques are all about focusing on your strengths and resources to create meaningful change. Instead of digging deep into past problems or analyzing every detail, this approach encourages you to envision your goals and identify small, manageable steps to reach them.
These techniques are practical and action-based. They help you:
Clarify what you want to achieve
Recognize your existing skills and support systems
Develop a clear plan to move forward
Build confidence by celebrating small successes
For example, if you’re feeling stuck in your career, a counselor using goal-oriented methods might ask you to describe what a satisfying job looks like for you. Then, together, you’d explore what’s already working in your life and what small changes could bring you closer to that vision.
This approach is especially helpful for people who want quick, positive results without getting overwhelmed by the details of their challenges.

How Goal-Oriented Counseling Techniques Support Mental Health
Mental health can feel complex, but goal-oriented counseling techniques simplify the process by focusing on what you can control. This focus helps reduce feelings of helplessness and increases motivation.
Here’s how these techniques support mental health:
Empowerment: You become an active participant in your healing process.
Clarity: Clear goals help reduce anxiety about the future.
Hope: Focusing on solutions builds optimism.
Efficiency: You see progress faster, which encourages continued effort.
For instance, if anxiety is holding you back, setting a goal like “practice deep breathing for five minutes daily” is a small but powerful step. Achieving this goal can boost your confidence and reduce anxiety symptoms over time.
By working with a counselor who uses these techniques, you get personalized support tailored to your unique needs and pace.
What Are the 9 Steps of EFT?
While goal-oriented counseling techniques focus on setting and achieving goals, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) offer a complementary approach to managing emotional distress. EFT combines tapping on specific points on the body with verbal affirmations to release negative emotions.
Here are the 9 basic steps of EFT:
Identify the issue: Focus on a specific problem or feeling.
Rate the intensity: On a scale from 0 to 10, rate how strong the feeling is.
Create a setup statement: Acknowledge the problem and accept yourself (e.g., “Even though I feel anxious, I deeply and completely accept myself”).
Tap the karate chop point: Repeat the setup statement while tapping the side of your hand.
Tap through the points: Tap on the eyebrow, side of the eye, under the eye, under the nose, chin, collarbone, under the arm, and top of the head.
Repeat a reminder phrase: While tapping, say a short phrase related to the issue (e.g., “this anxiety”).
Take a deep breath: Pause and breathe deeply.
Reassess the intensity: Rate the feeling again to see if it has decreased.
Repeat as needed: Continue tapping until the intensity is low or gone.
EFT can be a useful tool alongside goal-oriented counseling techniques, helping you manage emotional blocks that might interfere with your progress.

How to Get Started with Goal-Oriented Counseling Techniques
Starting with goal-oriented counseling techniques is easier than you might think. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you begin. Here are some practical steps to help you get going:
Identify one area to improve: It could be your mood, relationships, work, or self-care.
Set a clear, achievable goal: Make it specific and realistic. For example, “I want to improve my sleep by going to bed 30 minutes earlier.”
List your strengths and resources: Think about what has helped you in the past or who supports you.
Break the goal into small steps: Focus on what you can do today or this week.
Track your progress: Celebrate small wins and adjust your plan as needed.
Seek support: A counselor trained in these techniques can guide you and keep you accountable.
Remember, progress is not always linear. Some days will be easier than others, and that’s okay. The key is to keep moving forward, even if it’s just a little bit at a time.
Why Choose Virtual Mental Health Support?
Virtual mental health support offers flexibility and accessibility, especially for those living in FL, GA, TX, and MO. It allows you to connect with a counselor from the comfort of your home, saving time and reducing stress.
Here are some benefits of virtual counseling:
Convenience: Schedule sessions around your life, not the other way around.
Comfort: Talk openly in a familiar environment.
Access: Reach specialized counselors who may not be available locally.
Privacy: Maintain confidentiality without the need to travel.
Virtual support is a great fit for goal-oriented counseling techniques because it encourages regular check-ins and ongoing progress tracking. Plus, it integrates well with your daily routine, making it easier to stay committed to your goals.
If you’re ready to explore how these methods can help you, consider reaching out to a trusted virtual mental health provider who understands your unique needs.
I hope this post has given you a clear understanding of how goal-oriented counseling techniques can make a real difference in your life. By focusing on solutions and small, achievable goals, you can build momentum toward a healthier, happier you. Remember, every step forward counts, and support is always available when you need it.
If you want to learn more about solution-focused therapy, it’s a wonderful approach that aligns perfectly with these techniques and can be a powerful part of your mental health journey. Take that first step today - your future self will thank you.



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